Change through steps, not leaps

2009 August 17
by John Dehlin

“Those who would climb to a lofty height must go by steps, not leaps.”

St. Gregory the Great

from a letter to Augustine of Canterbury

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WORD FOR THE DAY

Monday, Aug. 17

Those Aren’t Fighting Words, Dear

2009 August 7
by John Dehlin

Those Aren’t Fighting Words, Dear

By LAURA A. MUNSON

LET’S say you have what you believe to be a healthy marriage. You’re still friends and lovers after spending more than half of your lives together. The dreams you set out to achieve in your 20s — gazing into each other’s eyes in candlelit city bistros when you were single and skinny — have for the most part come true.

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Psychologists repudiate gay-to-straight therapy

2009 August 6
by John Dehlin

From the APA.  I’m curious to know how much this trent still exists within the church (if at all).

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Psychologists repudiate gay-to-straight therapy

By DAVID CRARY (AP) – 22 hours ago

NEW YORK — The American Psychological Association declared Wednesday that mental health professionals should not tell gay clients they can become straight through therapy or other treatments.

In a resolution adopted by the APA’s governing council, and in an accompanying report, the association issued its most comprehensive repudiation of “reparative therapy” — a concept espoused by a small but persistent group of therapists, often allied with religious conservatives, who maintain gays can change.

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Honor, but expand (religion in the modern day)

2009 August 4
by John Dehlin

“Honor the tradition but expand the understanding. That’s what religions must do right now if they hope to be helpful to humans in the years ahead.”

Neale Donald Walsch

Tomorrow’s God

Holiness in the ordinary

2009 August 3
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by John Dehlin

“Holiness comes wrapped in the ordinary. There are burning bushes all around you. Every tree is full of angels. Hidden beauty is waiting in every crumb.”

Macrina Wiederkehr, O.S.B

A Tree Full of Angels

Laughter is holy

2009 August 3
by John Dehlin

“Laughter is carbonated holiness.”

Anne Lamott

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WORD FOR THE DAY

Monday, Aug. 3

Presence, Patience

2009 July 17
by John Dehlin

“Live in the present. Do the things that need to be done. Do all the good you can each day. The future will unfold.”

Peace Pilgrim

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WORD FOR THE DAY

Friday, Jul. 17

The power of Yes

2009 July 15
by John Dehlin

“We shall find “yes” to belonging in every form love takes.”

David Steindl-Rast

Gratefulness, the Heart of Prayer

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WORD FOR THE DAY

Wednesday, Jul. 15

Humble Discourse

2009 July 14
by John Dehlin

“My list of virtues contain’d at first but twelve; but a Quaker friend having kindly informed me that I was generally thought proud; that my pride show’d itself frequently in conversation; that I was not content with being in the right when discussing any point, but was overbearing, and rather insolent, of which he convinc’d me by mentioning several instances; I determined endeavouring to cure myself, if I could, of this vice or folly among the rest, and I added Humility to my list, giving an extensive meaning to the word.” read more…

Cheap Fear

2009 July 13
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by John Dehlin

“Fear is the cheapest room in the house. I would like to see you living in better conditions.”

Khwajeh Shams al-Din Muhammad Hafez-e Shirazi

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WORD FOR THE DAY

Sunday, Jul. 12